Marriage is a good thing, infact
it is one of the best feeling anyone can have on the surface of the earth. It
marks the end of a phase in one's life and actives another phase. It is a
confirmation of the fact that one has grown into maturity in all areas of life
and one is ready to face any kind of challenge life has to offer but in the
contrary, marriage can be very funny sometimes. If anyone misses it, one's life
can be miserable. Most marital mistakes are life time mistakes, they are
very difficult to correct, and you only manage it.
The below 10 points were
specially selected to guide our young ladies while they are getting set to
settle down.
1. Don't be in a hurry to move out
of your parents’ house.
2. Don't wait for a man before you
start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
3. Stay away from alcohol. It has
killed others and you are not special.
4. Don't entertain a wrong number
call, especially at night. It’s not the right way to find
a lover.
6. Dress
well: Impression counts. People will judge you by the way you dress even before
they speak with you.
7. Don't
use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he'll leave you after the
sex.
8. Don't
marry for the money, else you'll become one of his possessions.
9. Add
value to yourself - get a career. Don't be fooled that a man will solve all
your problems.
10. Beauty
is not everything. If beauty is all you have, you'll lose your place to someone more beautiful, matured and competent than you.
Above all,
Remember this, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that fears
the LORD, she shall be praised". [Prvb 31:30. As you age, so should be your
growth in the fear of the Lord. The same applies to men.
It is well.
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